Communication is really key !

Did you ever find yourself in unwelcomed threesome? Let me rephrase that. Not your usual sexual activity but when a third person involves themselves in your relationship. You find yourself torn between what you feel and what people tell you, between what you experience with your loved one and all the "he said, she said". You lose communication with your partner ; the only person you should listen and talk to, and you let outsiders get in your head. This is when things go down hill and you end up damaging your own love life. People, friends or siblings or whoever they maybe, might wish you well and want the best for you but they will never understand what you and your partner have. Being in a situation like that, I have let other people's opinions and mindsets change my mind about the person I loved the most. They made me focus on the problems instead of trying to work things out with that person. That does not mean that they're bad people or they wanted us to fail. It's just that you're bound to think in a one dimensional way if you're only familiar with one side of the story. They didn't know the mistakes I made or my faults, instead they focused on how that person wronged me. I guess I am partly to blame for it. And that's why I changed my ways. Our problems, we solve them together. Our happiness, we live and enjoy it together. We communicate our feelings; good or bad. We talk everything out and let out our frustrations. That's how you maintain a healthy relationship built on trust, respect and communication.

Have a great day whoever and wherever you are.