KAYASHE

What happens when you love someone to shreds but whenever they speak you wish they would shut up? Last time I asked you to say YES now it's time to say NO. I'm talking about something I have to deal with still when it comes to a few people around me. Their negativity kills my mood and makes me wish to never ever engage in another conversation with them. I'm talking about the people who always see black. The people who see the empty half of the glass. Those people who whine and complain about all of their problems but never try to do anything to solve them as if they're waiting for a miracle. Even when you try to cheer them up, they make you regret opening your mouth. To them I say, I GIVE UP. I give up trying to help people who don't want to be helped. I give up looking for chances to get you out of your hole while you're cozying up in there. The truth is when you spend too much time around these people, their pessimism and negativity clings onto you. It'...

We all struggle with our fear. Some of us are afraid to speak publicly. Some are afraid of rejection. Other are afraid of failure. And it's pretty normal for everyone. But are those things really scary or is it just in our heads? Have you ever taken a moment to think what if? What if I spoke up? What if I went to that sky diving activity? What if I tried that new career? Just like going to the dentist or getting a flu shot as a kid, You go in thinking it's the end of the world. But as soon as the doctor takes out that tooth or as soon you get the shot. You feel like the stupidest kid on earth. "How can I exaggerate something that is so easy to do". "It wasn't as scary as I thought". The very well-known actor Will Smith once said in a video that after you overcome your biggest fear, you experience pure bliss. I myself am scared of public speaking. I get anxious and nervous and I sweat like a pig. I've always experienced this and it caused me problem...

Did you ever find yourself in unwelcomed threesome? Let me rephrase that. Not your usual sexual activity but when a third person involves themselves in your relationship. You find yourself torn between what you feel and what people tell you, between what you experience with your loved one and all the "he said, she said". You lose communication with your partner ; the only person you should listen and talk to, and you let outsiders get in your head. This is when things go down hill and you end up damaging your own love life. People, friends or siblings or whoever they maybe, might wish you well and want the best for you but they will never understand what you and your partner have. Being in a situation like that, I have let other people's opinions and mindsets change my mind about the person I loved the most. They made me focus on the problems instead of trying to work things out with that person. That does not mean that they're bad people or they wanted us to fail....